Tip #1. Prepare Together—It Matters More Than You Think

Even if you know your relationship is real, preparing for the interview is crucial. This isn’t just a formality—it’s a government interview where the officer decides whether your relationship meets the requirements for a green card. Go over your application together, review the forms, your relationship timeline, how you met, your first date, your wedding, and details of your daily life. Couples can turn preparation into something meaningful—like a date night to reflect on their journey together. The goal is to make sure both of you are on the same page and comfortable answering personal questions confidently.

Tip #2. Organize Your Documents—And Know What’s Inside

Being organized shows you respect the process and can help the interview go more smoothly. Bring original civil documents like your certified marriage certificate, any divorce records, criminal documents if applicable, passports, identity documents, updated financial information, and new relationship evidence. Don’t bring binders that are hard to flip through. Everything should be easy to access and both partners should know where to find each item in case the interview is done separately.

Tip #3. Arrive Early and Be Ready to Wait

It’s important to plan your day around the interview. Arrive about 30 minutes early—but not too early, as some USCIS offices won’t let you in more than 30 minutes before. Also, prepare to wait. Interviews may be delayed, and in some cases, couples have waited several hours. Block off the full day so you don’t feel rushed or stressed.

Tip #4. Know What the Interview Room Looks Like

You’ll likely be seated at a desk across from the immigration officer in a private office. You’ll be sworn in, have your fingerprint taken, and the interview will be recorded. Expect the setting to feel formal. Only you and your spouse will be allowed in, unless an interpreter or immigration attorney is with you. Family members and children are generally not permitted in the room.

Tip #5. Listen Carefully Before You Answer

Let the officer finish speaking before responding to any question. Even if you think you know what’s being asked, don’t interrupt. Every officer has a different style and pace, and listening fully shows respect and ensures you don’t misunderstand the question.

Tip #6. Let Your Spouse Speak for Themselves

Only answer the questions directed to you. Avoid jumping in or finishing each other’s sentences. While this may be a natural habit in your relationship, it can raise concerns during the interview and may even lead to the officer interviewing you separately.

Tip #7. Be Honest—Always

Even if you’re nervous or worried a truthful answer might cause issues, never lie or withhold information. Honesty is always the best approach and builds trust with the officer reviewing your case.

Tip #8. If You Don’t Know, Don’t Guess

It’s okay to not remember everything perfectly. If you can’t recall a specific address or date, say so honestly. Never guess or make up an answer. Instead, explain what you do remember and be clear about what you’re unsure of.

Tip #9. Ask for Clarification When Needed

If you didn’t hear or understand a question, ask for the officer to repeat or explain it. It’s better to ask for clarification than to answer something you didn’t fully grasp.

Tip #10. Stay Polite and Respectful, No Matter What

Even if the officer seems stern or you feel anxious, it’s important to remain polite and calm. Frustration is understandable, especially after a long process, but respectful behavior leaves a better impression and helps the interview stay positive.

Tip #11. Don’t Fill the Silence

It’s normal for there to be quiet moments while the officer types or reviews documents. Don’t feel the need to talk or fill the space—just sit calmly and wait for the next question.

Tip #12. Avoid Jokes or Casual Behavior

While some officers may try to lighten the mood, it’s best to keep things professional. Joking, even if well-meaning, can be misinterpreted. Focus on being clear and respectful in your responses.

Tip #13. Keep Public Displays of Affection to a Minimum

Holding hands or being affectionate during the interview can be seen as inappropriate or even suspicious. Save the handholding for after the appointment—your answers and your evidence will speak for your love.

Tip #14. Bring Updated Relationship Evidence

Even if you submitted strong evidence before, bring new, updated proof to the interview. This might include recent photos, joint financial statements, lease agreements, shared bills, or updated travel documents. Make sure everything reflects your life together now—and double-check that documents like licenses show matching addresses.

Tip #15. Consider Bringing an Immigration Attorney

Having an attorney with you can bring peace of mind. While they can’t answer questions about your relationship, an attorney can step in to clarify legal issues, help ensure the officer follows procedure, and advocate on your behalf if anything unexpected arises. It’s an extra layer of support on a very important day.

You’ve Got This—And We’ve Got You

Preparing for your marriage green card interview might feel overwhelming, but with the right guidance and mindset, you can walk in with confidence. We are here to help you every step of the way. Whether you need help preparing your documents, understanding your case, or want an attorney by your side on interview day, our team is ready to support you.

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